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Lessons From Spring

Author: coach joelle
April 29, 2008

 

Ahhhhhh SPRING!

 

 

 


Words cannot fully describe the appreciation I have for this time of year.  The smell of the grass and dirt, the flowers in bloom, the warm sun on my face…..thank you thank you thank you!

 

Suddenly I am moved to go for walks. Around every corner lies a vision so spectacular, I must take a picture.  Life feels easier here, close to nature, soaking it all in.

 

I will be sharing some of my spring inspiration when I get a chance to upload the pictures but in the mean time, I had to share with you the amazing sentiment below.  A dear friend sent it to me and I knew I had to share. 

 

  

The story of the daffodils, below, shares one of life’s great truths.  Put one step in front of the other, unwavering, and you will get there. 

 

If you happen to know the original source please let me know and I will give them credit, but in the meantime, enjoy the daffodils.

 

With Love,

 

Joelle

 


   

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I wanted  to go, but it was a two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead    ’I will come next Tuesday’, I promised a little reluctantly on her third call.  

Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and  reluctantly I drove there. When I finally walked into Carolyn’s house I was  welcomed by the joyful sounds of happy children. I delightedly hugged and  greeted my grandchildren.    
‘Forget the daffodils, Carolyn!  The  road is invisible in these clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world  except you and these children that I want to see badly enough to drive another  inch!’ 

My daughter smiled calmly and said, ‘We drive in this all the  time, Mother.’ 

‘Well, you won’t get me back on the road until it  clears, and then I’m heading for home!’  I assured her. 

‘But  first we’re going to see the daffodils. It’s just a few blocks,’ Carolyn  said.  ’I'll drive. I’m used to this.’   
‘Carolyn,’ I  said sternly, ‘Please turn around’ 

‘It’s all right, Mother, I promise. You will never  forgive yourself if you miss this experience.’ 
After about twenty  minutes, we turned onto a small gravel road and I saw a small church. On the  far side of the church, I saw a hand lettered sign with an arrow that read, ‘  Daffodil Garden ‘  We got out of the car, each took a child’s hand, and I  followed Carolyn down the path. Then, as we turned a corner, I looked up and  gasped. Before me lay the most glorious sight. 

  
It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of gold and poured it over the mountain and its surrounding slopes.  The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns, great ribbons and  swaths of deep orange, creamy white, lemon yellow, salmon pink, and saffron  and  butter yellow. Each different colored variety was planted in large  groups so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique  hue. There were five acres of flowers. 

 

 
‘Who did this?’ I asked Carolyn.   ‘Just one woman,’ Ca rolyn answered. ‘She lives on the property. That’s her  home.’ Carolyn pointed to a well-kept A-frame house, small and modestly  sitting in the midst of all that glory. We walked up to the house.  


On the patio, we  saw a poster. ‘Answers to the Questions I Know You Are Asking’, was the  headline. The first answer was a simple one. ‘50,000 bulbs,’ it read. The  second answer was, ‘One at a time, by one woman. Two hands, two feet, and one  brain.’ The third answer was, ‘Began in 1958.’ 
 
For me, that moment was a life-changing  experience. I thought of this woman whom I had never met, who, more than forty  years before, had begun, one bulb at a time, to bring her vision of beauty and  joy to an obscure mountaintop. Planting one bulb at a time, year after year,  this unknown woman had forever changed the world in which she lived. One day  at a time, she had created something of extraordinary magnificence, beauty,  and inspiration. The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the  greatest principles of celebration. 
 
 

That is, learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at a time–often just one baby-step at time–and learning to love the doing, learning to use the accumulation of time. When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily  effort, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things We can change  the world . 

‘It makes me sad in a way,’ I admitted to Carolyn. ‘What  might I have
accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty-five or  forty years ago and had worked away at it ‘one bulb at a time’ through all  those years? Just think wh at I might have been able to achieve!’ 
My  daughter summed up the message of the day in her usual direct way. ‘Start  tomorrow,’ she said. 

She was right. It’s so pointless to think of the  lost hours of yesterdays. The way to make learning a lesson of celebration  instead of a cause for regret is to only ask, ‘How can I put this to use  today?’
Use the Daffodil Principle. Stop waiting…..  


Until your car or  home is paid off 
 


Until you get a new car or home  

Until you go back to school 

 

Until you finish school  

Until you clean  the house
 

Until  you organize the garage 

Until you clean off your desk 

 
Until you lose 10 lbs.  


Until you gain 10  lbs. 


Until you  get married 


Until  you get a divorce 

Until you retire  

Until  summer
 
 
Until  spring 


Until  winter
 
 
Until fall  


Until you die…  
 

There is no better time than right now to be happy. 
Happiness is a  journey, not a destination. 
Wishing you a beautiful, daffodil day!  

Hello everyone,

 

As I mentioned in my newsletter, one of the best things about going on vacation is coming home. It is great to be home from my 10 day Caribbean vacation and I cannot imagine this winter if we had not had it.

 

When I vacation, or travel or do just about anything I am usually out to improve myself, to grow to develop, to gain insight, but on this vacation I was determined to do nothing of the sort. This vacation I was just going to CHILL, not answer emails or check my voicemail and I was very clear that I had no intention of doing anything that even resembled thinking at all.

 

This was no small task and despite my best efforts I did have a couple of epiphanies but for the most part I would say my mission was accomplished.

 

One of my greatest vacation satisfactions was finding a book to read for my adventures.  “Eat Pray Love” kept jumping out at me, in the airport, at the Walgreens in San Juan, but to read that would go against all of my new vacation principles. I WILL NOT DEVELOP MYSELF! And so it was the tantalizing cover of “The Other Boleyn Girl” and its stunning portrait of some beautiful man (Henry the 8th apparently) with his arms draped around Natalie Portman and Charlotte Johansson, that grabbed me and asked me to take it cruising.

 

They had me at page 3 when the 13 year old Mary narrates a beheading while referencing her marriage which had occurred the year previous. Combine 12 year old brides, the politics and grandeur of the English court, the role of women as pawns in their families’ quest for status and power and my new found awareness that the church of England was founded so that a king could get rid of his wife of 20+ years and marry some girl who might give him a male heir and I had 700 pages of guilty pleasure that lasted all the way to the president’s club lounge on the trip back to Ohio.

 

Many of my favorite moments from the trip included coming back to the cabin after a full day of activity (we were in a balcony suite on a princess cruise) opening the sliding doors to our deck and the ocean, climbing into bed with the sun streaming in and the sound of the waves in the background and reading or napping until dinner. YUM!

 

This was our first full fledged vacation with another couple and it was the perfect arrangement.  Our dear friends Scott and Natalie joined us for 2 days of chill-time on the beach in San Juan and a 7 day cruise of Antigua, St Thomas, St Lucia, Barbados and Tortola. We had adjoining balconies that we could open to each other which kinda made it like a sleep over.

 

One of the many perks of cruising is the 24 hour complimentary room service, so we started each morning with fruit and coffee delivered to the balcony for a little early morning lounging before we hit shore or went for a full fledged breakfast.  Eating was WAY too big of a past time on the ship but for one week a year it was very fun – between the room service and the pizza stand and the 5 course nightly dinners that are all part of your package it was pretty much 7 days of overeating, feeling uncomfortable, swearing it will be different tomorrow and then doing it all over again.

 

Our first island was Barbados and it was one of those experiences where you get you are not in Kansas any more. I found the whole thing a little unsettling as we were driven through town and witnessed poverty along with the types of scenes you might see in big-city slums. Even at the beach my husband was solicited 3 times to buy drugs, right among the little tiki bars at 11:00 in the morning.  The water was that gorgeous aqua blue and we had a blast playing in the waves, but all in all, my gut feeling was that I was not safe and I will probably not return.

 

All of the islands were beautiful, and all of them left you with that subtle reminder that much of the rest of the world lives quite differently than the average North American. At one point I did the math to realize that the cost of our trip was several year’s wages for many of the people we witnessed on our travels.

 

We went Zip lining in the rain forest at Antigua – for those who are unfamiliar, zip lining involves a hefty harness, cable stretched across substantial gorges and platforms situated on either side of the gorge from which to launch.  It was way-fun, one of those things that you know if something goes wrong then you are totally toast but barring that it is nothing but pure exhilaration.

 

 

We went dolphin watching in St Lucia which was fabulous. To see what these animals can do, the way they launch themselves feet out of the water, they way they would race the boat and use our wake as an amusement park.  It was stunning. Not to mention I got to see flying fish -  And I am not talking jumping fish that look like they are flying, I am talking FLYING FISH. They would launch themselves away from the boat and go for 100’s of feet, looking like a dragon fly or humming bird, skipping across the waves.  It was like watching evolution at work, leaving me to question, are those really flying fish or swimming birds? Very cool!

 

Another highlight was a day we spent on a virtually deserted beach that Jeff and his family used to frequent when he was a child. It is so fun to watch him return to his youth, he has such an affinity for the place.  We all loved the quiet, calm bay, the white sand, the snack gal and drink guy. It was like owning an island for the day.

 

Other highlights – Jeff loved hanging by the pool on the ship, we watched a movie on the deck at night in lounge chairs, Natalie and both got massages in cabanas on the deck, and after our nightly dinner that usually had us closing down the dining room at 11:30, it would be off to bed to rest up for another day of play.

 

Perhaps the greatest accomplishment of the trip – other than finishing my 700 pages of delight -was for Jeff and I to identify our vacation preferences.  Jeff was our travel guide, planning most of the excursions, making sure we caught ferry’s, waking us up at 7 am to make sure we did not miss a moment of the action.  As it turns out, while he was very good at this, it was a bit more responsibility that he really needs on a vacation, and as for me, “7 am” and “vacation” should never be uttered in the same sentence.  And so next time, we will likely find a quieter spot, with less to do, less activity, less food, and less things to see.  All I really need is the sunshine, a drink, a good book and great company and I’m set.

 

When I get a chance I will share about the unexpected epiphanies, one which was delivered when I swallowed about half of the ocean while wave jumping and the other from a quiet moment resting at the spa pool while a lovely woman brought me drinks and cool towels. 

 

But for now, I just wanted to share the basics since so many wanted to know.  It is not so much to tell but I am grateful that we have the opportunity to take the time and the resources to fund a little sun just in the nick of time.

 

I love you.  Enjoy the coming of spring and the lengthening of the days.

 

Joelle

 

 

P.S.  While this blog entry does not do it justice, I had to mention that Jeff took amazing pictures and found great joy with his new camera.  The picture of the bed at the top was a cabana at our hotel in San Juan and I think this image is the most beautiful creation.  Hobbies and art a very good thing. I look forward to sharing more of his creations with you.  HUGS!

 


 

 

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Hey gang!  I wanted to share about the exciting program I have launching June 2nd . 

 

It is called the Make Your Life Program™ and it is designed to guide you in becoming someone that powerfully brings your dreams into reality, someone that deeply loves your life and someone that is having a great time while you are doing it!  It is my very special gift to those of you who are ready to start making your life by design and who are ready to enter into the world where bursts of inspiration, delight and magic become a regular part of your life experience.

 

Announcing the Make Your Life Program™June-July 2008

The Make Your Life Program™ is a one-of-a-kind tele-program which combines practical coaching skills and professional support with creativity and play, allowing you to consciously create a life you love and experience the magic of a life lived on purpose.

 

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I would love to have you join us.

 

Hugs on a Wednesday,

 

Coach Joelle

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